… Here's a lesson about what's going on around you     Did you know that approaching a woman with body language that communicates way to much interest can blow you out even before you open your mouth?  The above picture depicts a very common scenario in a bar scene.  The guy walks into a group that is completely closed off to him.  Instead of using neutral or negative body language, the guy displays open body language.  This can be imposing and creepy.     A much less imposing technique is to ap …